Wednesday 12 August 2015

Friendship...Really god gifted

       Friendship day had gone, many messages, friendship belts, cards, goodies, gifts so many things have been shared amongst friends, but for me it was day to share the memories with friends. All friends are important no best no worst, friend is a friend. All friends are special and have place in heart.There are always stories with friends, out of that today I am sharing 2 stories of my friendship which I think is not less interesting than any movie story...(If anyone going to make movie on that, don't forget to pay royalty)

1. Friendship across border: In our society still its not common that people trust someone living near to them or whom they know for a long time. To become a friend with a person who is different in nature, religion, country, habits is something very rare. All this started in March of 2009, a facebook id I have started to follow an account which had very few pics. A comment that you have very nice eyes and reply on that was 'are you mechanical engineer or engineer of eyes?', started the journey. Ohh! I know your guys waiting to know the characters, the person is from Bangladesh, a qualified CA, but the things which attracted me to become a friend are honesty, trustworthiness, acceptance of own faults. She has quite a good amount of anger but she knows it and always try to improve herself. A first call from +88 code number gave a good surprise. Never met her till date (ya very costly), just few teddy bears have went there as my representative. Mishika dear friend I am thankful for this friendship. Religion or Border nothing came between our friendship and I wish that this remain same always. I am still surprised how two persons who never met, who are totally different can share there secrets easily and talk with very much comfort. No one has any expectation is also a beauty of this relation. Only God can set such friendship, thank you god and thank you mishika.Wish we can afford traveling expense soon.

2. Unplanned friendship: The first story is about contact with a person who is thousands of mile away but there is also a story where people in same city meet just in a unplanned way and become friends. In 2003 after passing my 10th standard I have joined an activity for vacation which was industrial visit workshop, there I met my friend SS first time. The first impression of her was her height and her jolly nature. I was shy at that time(seriously!) so had not much talk between us. After that in 2006 suddenly at technical event at engineering college we met, again some formality of hello and how are you and we left without sharing contact. Again at one more technical event we met and same story. Finally meeting at alumni event at college in 2013 contacts exchanged at last. A decade without sharing contact and still we met at regular intervals, that was not a coincidence but wish of god for such valuable friendship. Thank you SS for being a friend for such a long time and never complaining on anything or asking for anything. Just a complain that after having contacts we have never met...Hope to meet soon. :)

These two stories  I believe are rare of the rare. but my friends each moment with a friend is a story itself. Thanks for giving me such a nice gift of friendship to all my buddies. I always keep you all in my heart. Thanks for being with me. Happy friendship day (belated)